101 Gay Sex Tips You Didn't Learn in Middle School Sex Ed - Pride.com
Shutterstock As gay/bi men, we didn't learn much in sex ed. Sex is such a taboo topic in school as it is, but anything on the LGBTQ+ spectrum is definitely unheard of. We may have had a generalized overview of STIs and some contraceptives, but everything else is up to us to explore. Whether you're new to gay sex or looking to explore and deepen your experience, here are 101 tips that you certainly didn't learn in sex ed. 1. There's more to sex than anal penetration There's a focus in mainstream media on penetrative sex. It has to P-in-B, otherwise it doesn't count as "real sex." This is ridiculous. Define sex for yourself. Don't let society define it for you. Shutterstock 2. It's okay to vocalize and explore your fantasies... and to say no to ones you're uncomfortable with ...